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Community Resolutions
A newsletter of Cleveland Mediation Center
December 2008 
In This Issue
Caught in foreclosure
Conflict Resolution Primer
Get Involved at CMC
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Comments about Mediation Training 
 
2008 participants said the following about Cleveland Mediation Center trainings:
 
"So enjoyed this- Look forward to another."
 
"The session was done exceptionally well and I walked away with practical lifelong skills."
 
"I brought learned knowledge into practical action.  Great opportunity to make mistakes, try new things, and be gently guided." 
 
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CMC Board Members and Staff 

BOARD MEMBERS
 
Keith Benjamin
Willette Burrell
Patrick Coy---Vice President
Lisa Gaynier --- President
Angel R. Pagan
Jennifer I. Peyton
Tom Sheehan
Brad Shrock---Treasurer
Jeanette V'elez
 
ADVISORY BOARD
 
Noelle Celeste
Wendy S. Hawbaker
Jill Rudd
Marianela Serrano
Anna Vedouras

STAFF

 Ed Boyte,
Asst. Director/Trainer
 
Danielle Cosgrove, Dir. of Programs and Development
 
Gloria Hawkins,
Truancy Mediation Advocate
 
Daniel Joyce, Exec. Director
 
Tabatha Walton, Homeless Prevention Advocate
 
Denise Wilson,Program and Administrative Asst. 
Agency Wish List 
Shredder
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Paper printed on one side
Used or new video camera
Used or new digital camera
Children's Books
Coat Rack
  
Cleveland Mediation Center logo    Message from the Executive Director,
 
The winds of change have been swirling about us in 2008. Unfortunately, the economic woes are blowing at gale force in Northeast Ohio and those we serve are feeling the brunt of it. In almost every case, be it school attendance truancy or homeless prevention, we are witnessing poverty of staggering magnitude. During these times our work to help people meet their most basic needs is critical. Without basic needs met, those we serve can do little to address and resolve issues like school attendance and housing security.
 
Consider Sean, a student who attends Max Hays High School and wants to become an auto mechanic.  When CMC staff met with Sean and his mother regarding a truancy issue, we found out he had been riding his bike 1.9 miles to school everyday until the streets became impassable due to inclement weather.  He also didn't have a pair of winter boots to wear. Sean's father, who was an auto mechanic, died four years ago leaving Sean, his mother and two sisters with a monthly income of $749 including food stamps. CMC staff provided him with a monthly bus pass and a pair of boots, we gave his younger sister a winter coat, and we offered the family a Thanksgiving turkey. The staff also referred the family to the West Side Family Resource Network Resource Specialist so that over time we can follow-up on the school issues that first brought Sean to us.
 
In 2008, CMC has served more than 864 individuals and families through mediation and referrals. Like Sean, all of them are people struggling to find a way to stretch their meager resources in order to survive.  A specific breakdown of our numbers follows.
 
We helped 282 students with attendance issues and their families 
 
We stopped the eviction of 342 families so far this year for Homeless Prevention.
 
We assisted 48 renters and their families in finding a new residence whose homes were in foreclosure.
 
As many of you know, this year CMC had a funding crisis of its own, in part due to shifts in funding priorities. With the generous support of the private funding community, our board of directors and individual donors like you, we were able to overcome the crisis and continue to provide services to the community.  Make no mistake, like all small non-profits, we still face serious challenges in 2009. Not only are traditional sources of funding shrinking, but the need in our neighborhoods is rapidly growing more critical. CMC needs to reach out to more struggling students, like Sean, to help them solve their problems so that they can thrive in school, because a person's access to education should never be jeopardized by a missing pair of boots.
 
I hope that in this season of giving, you will consider a gift to CMC. Your support goes directly to ensuring that trained mediators can help those among us in need find the support and resources they need to steady themselves against the stormy winds still to come. Every gift of every size is important, so please take a moment to access our donation page on-line. 
 
Thank you.
 
Dan Joyce
 
Caught in foreclosure  
 
Foreclosures are hitting families hard across the country as evidenced by the news and walks through local neighborhoods. A lesser known causalty of the foreclosure crisis are renters whose homes are in foreclosure.   
 
CMC in collaboration with Cleveland Tenants Organization (CTO), recently began a pilot project working with this vulnerable group. First, tenants are informed by CTO that their dwelling is in foreclosure and are referred to Cleveland Mediation Center for assistance.  The mediation advocate verifies the foreclosure and the tenant's eligibility.  For eligible tenants, the mediation advocate contacts the bank to negotiate the terms of the tenancy after the foreclosure or determines a mutually agreeable move-out date (cash for keys) if tenancy is not possible.  If the tenant is moving out, the mediation advocate helps the tenant find affordable housing and helps the tenant through the process of signing the lease and scheduling a move-in day.  The mediation advocate also sends the first month's rent and security deposit to the new property owner.
This past summer, CMC worked with a group of tenants in this very situation.  Four single mothers and their ten children became suddenly homeless when the property they rented was foreclosed on.  Although all four families were current on their rent, the owner had defaulted on the mortgage and failed to pay the utilities.  Recent storms had flooded the basements and the home had no water or electricity. 
 
In this case, CMC was asked to help the four families, and we were able to quickly find them housing.  Every day, we are seeing the real social costs and casualties of the foreclosure crisis, and are finding ways to keep families together, safe and sheltered. 

CMC hopes to continue this valuable program through extending the grant into 2009 and further helping tenants caught in this crisis.
Conflict Resolution Tip 
Avoiding conflict at the holidays
 
During the hustle and bustle of the holidays there are potential conflicts everywhere: in the parking lot of the local mall, with the harried clerk at the store, and with your brother-in-law on the opposite side of the political fence.  One way to avoid these conflicts is to mentally prepare yourself for the situation before it happens.  
 
1. If you know there is going to be a lot of traffic because of holiday shoppers, prepare yourself for the inevidability and leave extra travel time. 
2. If every year you get into a big debate with your brother-in-law over the politics, remind yourself of this ahead of time so you aren't drawn into the annual battle over ideologies. 
3. When you are going shopping remind yourself that the store clerks have extra stressors this time of year and build in time for the longer lines.  
4. If you crowded Christmas parties give you the jitters, prepare ahead and decide to leave after 45 minutes and then follow it up with something you'd rather be doing.
 
Preparing yourself for potential conflict helps you have a calmer reaction when conflict does arise.  This makes for a more peaceful holiday season, which is something that can be helpful to everyone. 
Get involved at CMC 
 
There are a few ways to get involved at CMC, including becoming a volunteer mediator and volunteering here in the office.
 
Once you've taken CMC's basic mediation training, you can sign-up to become a volunteer mediator.  This not only gives back to the community through volunteering but also builds mediation skills since all mediators are trained by CMC staff.  This process includes observation, co-mediation, and conversations about how the mediation process is going.
 
Volunteer opportunities in the office include light office work and helping out with research projects.  We also regularly have interns at CMC that do a combination of both of these things and also have in the past helped out with mediation intakes.
 
Call Gloria Hawkins today at (216) 621-1919, ext. 102 for more information.  
All of us at Cleveland Mediation Center would like to wish everyone Happy Holidays.
 
Sincerely,
 
Danielle Cosgrove
Cleveland Mediation Center
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